- A few days ago, I was having a lovely conversation with my 2 1/2 year old niece Lucy. I was shocked to realize she was actually saying many of her words clearly, and that when I responded, she confirmed that I was correct in guessing what she said. She was sitting on the floor in her diaper and cute little t-shirt, while her eggs rapidly cooled on her plate at the dining room table. "Lucy, are you going to go eat your eggs?" I asked. "No!" she replied, giggling. "What about your cheese?" "No!" "How about some worms?"
After a few seconds of silence, she responded, "AWOOkuhTAHmay!" I looked at her, puzzled. Look at something, maybe? You went somewhere in May? "Maybe your Mom can translate for you, Lulu." So, Amanda came into the room to translate. When she heard what Lucy was saying, she responded, "Look at something? Look at Dad?" "No!" Lucy replied, "AWOOkuhTAHmay!" After a few minutes of Lucy repeating it over and over (and over), Amanda finally got it. "Oh, is it 'Look what God made'?"
"Yah!" Lucy responded as if we were dumb, "AWOOkuhTAHmay!"
Apparently, Amanda had been reading a book earlier that had pictures of things on earth (birds, bugs, worms, animals), and on every other page, it said "Look what God made." So when I mentioned the worm, Lucy connected it, and there you go. She's one smart kid.
- I love my son Ian. Some days are rough with my little 2.18 year old. Its easy to wish he was 2 1/2 or even 15, just so he would actually talk to me and not whine and scream when he needs something. Don't get me wrong, he says many, many words. Just not when I need him to, and not always clearly. A few other moms are going through the same thing I am, wishing their kids knew more words, and would communicate better.
But I had a great revelation about this.
I feel like in our day and age, so many people are putting way too much of an emphasis on intelligence in young kids. I still remember a young toddler down the street from my house in Edmonds who could say "Trapezoid." (As if she even knew what one was).
I am not denying the fact that teaching our kids language, and giving them knowledge, is very important. However, I have to assert that the highest priority is teaching them love and respect (and good manners, patience, etc.).
We need to teach them how to love others, how to be loved, how to obey their parents and their teachers and grandparents. How to use a spoon properly, and how to open a ziploc bag. REAL WORLD knowledge and skills.
This revelation makes me less concerned about my typically-slow-to-learn-language little toddler boy!
- Fun words Ian is saying:
- Boosh: book
- Anana: Ana
- Anana?: Where is Ana?
- aCAR aCAR!: car
- No, mine!: that's mine, mother dearest
- Tee Tee: TV
- Mail: he really says it correctly!
- Juish: Juice
- Momo: Elmo
- Teetoh: Stroller
- Mahmin: cousin Martin
- Yooyoo: cousin Lulu
- Ahlo: cousin Milo
- Baba!!!!!: Grandpa, either one
- Atata?: Where is it? (hides things under a blanket)
- eeah: ear
- babaow: eyebrow
- knee: says it perfectly ever since that traumatic leap of death off the stairs
- Titty: kitty cat. I know.
- Doddy!: doggy
- TAtoh: tractor
He probably says more fun things, but that's all I can think of at the moment
- So excited to take Ian trick-or-treating. I am a candy-fiend... it is very convenient for me to have kids as my means to an end! Ian is going to be a fire-fighter, axe and extinguisher from the dollar store and all! Ana is going to conveniently be a pink and brown fuzzy bear. She's been wearing her plush, amazingly warm outfit for the past few weeks now.
And I'll be my usual "Funny Lady wearing a curly red wig, retro glasses, and large hoop earings. I guess I could just throw in one of our cafe aprons and be a barista, but we'll see... we'll see.
Oh and then there's Aaron. He'll be a guy wearing a Seahawk sweatshirt. :)
- The Leffels (Jeremy, Deena, Tal, Martin and Josée) are coming to town! So excited, we cherish every minute we get to spend with them. And its Martin's birthday! We'll do some fun stuff, eat some yummy non-dairy dessert, and enjoy a day of family! Woohoo!